My last car was a stick shift. My husband predicted that I would be sorry that I got it. But with just a year of payments left on it, I am still loving it. I wanted a sun roof too but that's okay. I walked past a convertable the other day and my heart skipped a beat. Forget the sunroof! I know what I want next! Smile... and sigh... because I know that is not what I really want. What I really want is my youth back!
I remember once when I was about twenty. My friend's dad had bought an old refurbished T-bird convertable. He wanted to take me for a spin in his classic car to show it off to me. With a "Kenny Nolan" tape playing in the tape deck we whipped around the hills of Palos Verdes. I remember thinking... he is having an affair. His wife was sick and had not been a wife to him for years. It turned out that I was right. I got some of their furniture out of that divorce for my first little apartment. It was very sad.
I remember thinking how old he was and marvling at the fact that he was listening to songs about new love and feeling that it was all very "creepy" at the time. I look back now and have to laugh. He was younger than I am now and that memory has come back to hit me smack in the face. As I find myself in a legitimate Mid Life Crisis of my own. I am officially grieving my youth.
Recently I have had the opportunity to go down memory lane with an old friend. And it has felt good. To lose myself in the fantasy of the past and what could have been to help numb the reality of today where all those dreams I had to look forward to were lost like that classic little white T-bird. I play my own love songs now and mourn for something more than just an old love but for the girl I was so many decades ago, driving around the hills of Palos Verdes feeling sorry for the old man in the driver's seat.
No comments:
Post a Comment